A little About Me

Welcome to the blog! This will be a collection of my thoughts from my Family Relations class at Brigham Young University Idaho. It is my first year at this university, and I am very far from home (Michigan) but I have been loving it so far! In my free time and when I don't have homework (and regrettably sometimes when I do) I love hiking, hanging out with friends, and longboarding (this last fact makes me seem way edgier than I actually am).

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